The Mystery Guy. The Reason Why Won’t The Guy Satisfy Me?

3 years-ish before, we found some guy on the internet, we’ll phone him “D”, on Myspace. It had been pretty innocent, and he had been fairly HOT. And by relatively, I mean SO.CUTE. It wasn’t some huge relationship, I was in between interactions but we contributed music preferences, a dry (ahem devastatingly witty) love of life and we also both lived-in L.A. Emails slowly advanced to texts to random telephone calls. Once more, perhaps not a large love affair, but undoubtedly some thing with possible.

He’d ask us to go out, after which terminate. This pattern would repeat, repeat, repeat. I’d take his neighborhood and have him to meet local milf for coffee/lunch but he constantly had programs. What a coincidence, right? I not really cared too much-I started a brand new relationship and merely recorded “D” away as a text/email friend and he felt pleased to simply fade away naturally as my personal union using my now sweetheart progressed.

Now, we’re friends on Twitter and Twitter, and then he drunk texts me ALL.THE.TIME. The guy emails myself audio the guy believes we’ll like (I always think it’s great) in which he calls me as soon as every couple weeks. Gathering through the social media marketing stalking i have done, he is single…goes out everyday, does not have a girlfriend or ten kids…and there isn’t any explanation we now haven’t strung down. Basically quit replying to him, I have “Where are you presently? I skip you!” texts, etc. He’s lent a virtual hand during crisis in my own life, sends me personally small (low creepy) provides for my birthday and Christmas time and is apparently a fantastic guy…but it is so difficult to share with, since he will not appear from behind the computer.

It’s very complicated, because although Im thus pleased during my relationship, We think about “D” a buddy. But are we?

I have that perhaps the guy is not that interested in fulfilling me personally face to face, and I also’m ok thereupon. In all honesty, I’m not into him romantically in any way-I suggest, some guy whom requires three years in order to get something done is not appealing! If they aren’t curious, or was not curious 36 months ago…why does the guy keep calling/texting/tweeting/emailing/facebooking?

Feasible Responses.
1. he is shy/intimidated-this has been their excuse before but I don’t know I buy it.
2. they are perhaps not who the guy seems to be on line. My personal just issue with this particular usually his Twitter is apparently filled up with “real” existence friends and family, in which he constantly provides brand new pictures-I understand where he operates, where the guy lives-whoa I appear to be a creep. HOWEVER-we’ve all heard the Catfish tale, correct? Never ever may be also mindful! But What i’m saying is, their mother plainly comments on his posts, and I also simply cannot picture this woman isn’t actual!
3. He loves having an appealing girl give him attention but the guy does not have to step up to your dish and in actual fact “DO” any such thing. BINGO.
4. he is only a weirdo.

I am tilting towards 3, and hoping it is not 4. But at this time, it is simply more interest than such a thing else-who is my personal mystical buddy “D”? Hello D, you’re probably reading this…since you stick to myself on Twitter and all!

What do you guys imagine? Exactly why are you willing to invest so much in someone you never decide to meet? Assist a girl out. ????